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  • Writer's pictureHeatherAnne Norbury

The Rider and the Elephant: A Powerful Analogy for Decluttering Success

Updated: May 10, 2023



Have you ever found yourself surrounded by clutter, with piles of papers, books, and clothes seemingly taking over your living space? You might have attempted to declutter but found yourself feeling overwhelmed and giving up before you made any real progress. If this sounds familiar, you may benefit from the rider and elephant analogy for decluttering.


The rider and elephant analogy comes from the book The Happiness Hypothesis by Jonathan Haidt and is described in further detail in Switch: How to Change When Change is Hard by Chip Heath and Dan Heath.


In this analogy, the rider represents the conscious, logical part of our brain that is responsible for decision-making and self-control. The elephant represents the unconscious, emotional part of our brain that is responsible for our desires, impulses, and habits. The rider and elephant are both necessary for effective decluttering, but they need to be in balance in order to achieve success.


The rider and elephant analogy can be applied to decluttering in the following ways:


Set a clear goal

The rider needs to set a clear goal for decluttering, such as decluttering the living room or the bedroom. This will give the elephant a clear direction to follow.


Visualize the end result

The rider needs to visualize the end result of decluttering, such as a clean and organized living space. This will motivate the elephant to work towards that goal.


Break it down

The rider needs to break down the task of decluttering into smaller, manageable steps. This will prevent the elephant from feeling overwhelmed and giving up.

Look for the bright spots

Look for the things that are already working well in your life and build upon them. Instead of getting bogged down by problems and challenges, shift your focus to the positive aspects of your life. Identify specific strategies that work to replicate and build upon.


Start small and get started

The rider loves to overanalyze everything and make lots and lots of plans, but plans don’t make progress. Your elephant likes to just barge full steam ahead. Help them both by starting with small, clearly defined tasks, such as decluttering a single drawer or shelf. This will build momentum and confidence.


Focus on progress, not perfection

The rider and elephant need to focus on progress, not perfection. Decluttering is a process, and it's important to celebrate small victories along the way.


Let go of emotional attachments

The elephant may struggle with letting go of items that have emotional attachments, such as sentimental objects or gifts from loved ones. The rider can help by reminding the elephant that memories are not tied to physical objects.


Create new habits

The rider and elephant can work together to create new habits that will prevent clutter from building up in the future, such as setting aside time each week to declutter and organize.


By balancing the rational rider and emotional elephant, you can declutter your living space and enjoy the benefits of a clean and organized home. With time and practice, decluttering can become a regular part of your routine, and you can enjoy the peace and clarity that comes with a clutter-free life.


Are you ready to power up your rider and tame your elephant? Book a free coaching call with me today to get personalized guidance on decluttering and organizing your space. Take the first step towards a more organized and stress-free life.


Remember, small, consistent actions add up to big changes. Declutter your life today!



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